• It’s time to redefine strength.

The Strength of Vulnerability

Break free from emotional armor, heal old wounds, and embrace the confidence that comes from living with an
open heart

If you’ve ever felt like you had to be “the strong one,” like your walls are the only thing keeping you safe, I want you to know:

  • You are not too much.
  • You are not broken.
  • And the armor you built to survive is not what makes you strong.
  • You are not too much.
  • You are not broken.
  • And the armor you built to survive is not what makes you strong.

My Journey

Eileen Jimenez is a transformational coach, speaker, and writer dedicated to helping people break free from emotional survival mode and step into lives filled with confidence, connection, and authenticity. With a background in corporate finance and a deep passion for personal development, she knows firsthand what it’s like to appear strong on the outside while feeling guarded and disconnected within.


Raised in Brooklyn, New York as the eldest daughter of immigrant parents, Eileen learned early on that independence was necessary and vulnerability was a risk. She built walls to protect herself—only to realize those same walls were keeping her from the life and love she truly desired. Her journey from self-protection to self-acceptance became the foundation for Soft Armor.


Now Eileen helps others release their armor and redefine true strength. She holds a Professional Certified Coach (PCC) credential through the International Coaching Federation (ICF). She has guided countless individuals in rewriting their inner narratives, healing past wounds, and learning to trust themselves again.

These days, you’ll find her deepening her spiritual practice through meditation and self-reflection, traveling to new places, and constantly exploring new ways to grow, love, and live with purpose.


How Breaking Down Your Walls Can Set You Free

Introducing Soft Armor: Strength of Vulnerability

Growing up in New York City in

the ’90s was a test of endurance. The city never slept, and neither did its lessons. I witnessed things no child should—violence, drugs, even murder. Vulnerability? That was a liability. The world taught me early on that vulnerability was dangerous, so I armored myself with independence, resilience, and an unwavering belief that I could only rely on myself. I climbed the corporate ladder, perfected the art of control, and became the woman who always had it together.


But beneath the polished exterior was a different story. I wasn’t just succeeding—I was performing. And deep down, I felt like a fraud.


For years, I convinced myself I was unlucky in love, that love—real, deep, transformative love— I yearned for wasn’t for me. Not because I didn’t want it, but because I didn’t know how to let it in. I had spent my life keeping people at arm’s length, thinking it kept me safe. In reality, it was keeping me stuck.

Is this what life is about? Always being on guard, hiding behind a tough exterior?

If you’ve ever yearned for love so deeply it ached, but feared that letting someone see your heart meant giving them the power to shatter it… If you’ve held back, afraid that loving with your whole soul would lead to betrayal, abandonment, or the unbearable pain of choosing the wrong person… I see you. I am you.

If you’ve ever felt like you had to be “the strong one,” like your walls are the only thing keeping you safe, I want you to know:

  • You are not too much.
  • You are not broken.
  • And the armor you built to survive is not what makes you strong.


Love isn’t the enemy. Fear is. And the only way to heal is to stop hiding.

Are you ready to step into a new you?

Soft Armor is a powerful guide to breaking through emotional barriers and living with strength, vulnerability, and purpose. We’ve been taught that guarding ourselves is the only way to stay safe, but in reality, true confidence and fulfillment come from shedding our armor and embracing who we really are.

  • Learn why emotional armor holds you back—and how to let go
  • Discover how vulnerability can be your greatest strength
  • Reprogram your mindset to build unshakable confidence
  • Navigate relationships with clarity, self-worth, and authenticity
  • Learn why emotional armor holds you back—and how to let go
  • Discover how vulnerability can be your greatest strength
  • Reprogram your mindset to build unshakable confidence
  • Navigate relationships with clarity, self-worth, and authenticity

You Could Be Next!

It’s time to redefine strength

Download your free chapter now and start your journey toward real, lasting transformation.

Soft Armor isn’t just another personal development book—it’s a guide for those tired of just surviving and ready to start living. It’s for those who want to break free from old patterns, release emotional blocks, and finally step into the love, confidence, and fulfillment they deserve.

FAQs

What is Soft Armor about?

Soft Armor is a guide to breaking through emotional barriers and learning how to embrace vulnerability as a strength, rather than a weakness. It helps readers build confidence, self-trust, and emotional resilience.

Who is this book for?

This book is for anyone who’s ever felt stuck, guarded, or disconnected from your true self, Soft Armor will help you shift your mindset, heal past wounds, and step into a more empowered version of yourself.

Where can I buy the book?

Soft Armor is available on Amazon, Audible and IngramSpark.

Do I need to have experience with self-help books to understand this?

Not at all! This book is written in a conversational, relatable tone that makes it easy to digest and apply to your life.